Introductions start when the accountant asks the client the question. Ask it at the year-end meeting, which is already in the diary, with the accounts on the table and the client expecting to talk about money.
Use the year-end meeting
The client came to the meeting to talk about the company’s money. A question about their own position fits there.
Put it at the end of the meeting
Do the company work first. Sign off the accounts, cover the tax position, deal with what they came for. Ask the personal question once the business conversation has finished and before either of you has stood up.
The question to ask
Wording you can use“We have covered the company. Can I ask what the plan is for you personally?”
The question is open and names no product. The client can say “all sorted” or talk for fifteen minutes about a business they want out of by sixty. Either way your firm learns something about the client it did not have in the file.

